Understand Men - When there just not that into you.
So you're dating a guy and he's hasn't called you in a while. Maybe you've seen him flirting with another girl? Oh No!
Do you stress out?
No.
Just consider that possibility that he's just not that into you.
Guys, are guys. Guys like different things. Just because he doesn't like you doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.
Some guys honestly just like brunettes over blondes and vice versa.
My friend Jabs had this really cute brunette practically begging to hook up with him a while back. I thought he was crazy not to go for it. But he only goes for tall blondes, so he turned her down. We're not even talking about a guy that gets a lot of play here. Just an average guy. And she was really hot!
It could be something to do with your personality as well. Not even a bad thing. Some people just aren't very compatible. I would see a girl who was quiet as shy and insecure. I would find her unattractive. Plenty of guys, though would see her as "laid back" or "needing excitement" and would be very attracted to a girl like that.
What are the ways to tell for definite that he's just not that into you?
1. He never shows you affection. He doesn't kiss you or cuddle you.
2. He's not that interested in sex.
3. He flirts with other girls a lot.
4. He shows little enthusiasm for making future plans.
5. He doesn't talk to you much or hang out with you. He prefers to hang out with his guy mates.
Personally I think its a good thing that he's just not that into you and that you know now. It means you can move on with your life and find someone who's really into you. Hope that helps you understand men a little better.
