Don't understand men eh?  Join the club.  So you've been married for a while now and he's losing interest? Lets look at the signs that he no longer he's just not that into you.

1. He doesn't pay you much attention anymore.  He'd rather watch TV then watch you get undressed.

2. He doesn't compliment you.  He doesn't even use his pet names for you anymore. 

3. He hasn't bought you a gift for ages, especially a romantic gift.  Remember that cute little teddy bear he got you.  Think back.  No further back.  Now you remember.  Yes, it was quite a while ago wasn't it?

4. I know its a cliche but he forgot your birthday.

(An obvious sign that he's just not that into you.)

5. You rarely do anything fun anymore.  There's no spark in your marriage.  No flirting and no craziness. 

6. He's working all the time.  He can't like working that much can he?  Anyway no one needs to work 70 hours a week to get a promotion. 

7. You don't spend anytime together.  The romantic evenings you used to have are over. 

8. He'd rather hang out with the boys than you.  He's always down the pub with them instead of at home cuddled up with you. In fact he normally makes sure to get in when he knows you'll already be asleep. 

So if he's ticks quite a few of these boxes then you have to face the truth.  It may have been wonderful once but now he's just not that into you and it's time to move on with your life.