Don't understand men eh?  Join the club.  So you've been married for a while now and he's losing interest? Lets look at the signs that he no longer he's just not that into you.

1. He doesn't pay you much attention anymore.  He'd rather watch TV then watch you get undressed.

2. He doesn't compliment you.  He doesn't even use his pet names for you anymore. 

3. He hasn't bought you a gift for ages, especially a romantic gift.  Remember that cute little teddy bear he got you.  Think back.  No further back.  Now you remember.  Yes, it was quite a while ago wasn't it?

4. I know its a cliche but he forgot your birthday.

(An obvious sign that he's just not that into you.)

5. You rarely do anything fun anymore.  There's no spark in your marriage.  No flirting and no craziness. 

6. He's working all the time.  He can't like working that much can he?  Anyway no one needs to work 70 hours a week to get a promotion. 

7. You don't spend anytime together.  The romantic evenings you used to have are over. 

8. He'd rather hang out with the boys than you.  He's always down the pub with them instead of at home cuddled up with you. In fact he normally makes sure to get in when he knows you'll already be asleep. 

So if he's ticks quite a few of these boxes then you have to face the truth.  It may have been wonderful once but now he's just not that into you and it's time to move on with your life.

I'm a guy who's very interested in the field of dating. In fact it's my specialty.

I give women advice on dating as well as men. I think its a very interesting area which is why I read this book, to understand men more. 

"He's Just Not That Into You." By Greg Brehedent and Liz Tocculi

I say "read." I certainly didn't finish it. It was way to boring for that.

Pretty much the only piece of advice the book gives is this:

"If a guys not that into you and your looking for more, dump him."

Its not bad advice. Certainly a lot of women get blinded by their "love" for me and forget to ask but is he just not that into me.

And If he's just not that into you then you should dump him. Straight away.

You can't MAKE a guy like you, thats for sure.

However this is the only piece of advice this book offers and it repeats it ad nauseum. Which doesn't make that one piece of advice any more insightful or entertaining.

Lets take some sample chapter titles:

He's just not that into you if he's not having sex with you

Obviously

He's just not that into you if he's not calling you

Depends on the situation but still nothing groundbreaking here.

The book is also very patronising, It virtually lectures women. I'd only buy this book for someone if I knew they were in a relationship they should get out off. Where the guy just wasn't interested in them at all. And to be honest. I probably still wouldn't by the book for them, I'd just tell them.

Hope this review was helpful.