So you've been with your boyfriend about 3 months or there about. In the beginning you were dreaming of marriage and children, but now your not so sure. Lately it seems like he's just not that into you.  I know the feeling understanding men is very tricky. 

So what do you do?

Option 1 - Dump him

If he's just not that into you then there's not a lot you can do. If you dump him you can make a clean break. Sooner or later you'll stop thinking about him, You can find someone else who is really into you. Why waste your time on someone who's not into you. This isn't a bad option. It's certainly better than staying in a relationship that's stagnating.

Option 2 - Stick it out with him

This is probably the worst option. A lot of women think they can 'change' men. Which is in the conventional sense is ridiculous. You can't nag a man into changing his ways. You also can't MAKE a man like you. If he's just not that into you, he's just not that into you.

Option 3 - Stay with him but see other people.

This is the best option. It eliminates neediness in the relationship. You won't be up all night wondering if he still likes you if you've got a hot date tomorrow will you? It doesn't decrease your feeling for him but it means you can consider other options. Your man is able to see that you won't be taken for granted and he'll work to win you back. The best way to bring this up is to simply say something like, "I really like you Mick but I think maybe this relationship has got serious to quickly. I think we've kind of got into a rut already. I want to keep seeing you but I want to see other people too." Of course it won't be as easy as that. It will require a long discussion but stick to your guns and you'll get what you want. Tell him the only other option is for you two to break up.

Three solutions if he's just not that into you.

Pick your favorite.